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In the spirit of gratitude, I’m listing wondrous things happening in my world every week on Wednesday.  If you are a blogger and want to list what you are grateful for, feel free to do the same on your own blog every week and please be sure to link back to my blog.   If you are not a blogger, feel free to comment here on my blog with your own three wondrous things you are grateful for on Wednesday. 

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Baby monitors are a wondrous invention.  Right now, as I type this the girls are supposed to be napping, but Alicia is telling Hannah, "You're not supposed to throw your toys out of the bed."  I knew that Alicia asking to go for a rest at the same time I was going to put Hannah down for a nap would be trouble.  At least Alicia informed me that Hannah had to go potty so I could change Hannah's diaper...  It's actually really cute.  However, this is why bed time is usually staggered.  Otherwise they'd never go to sleep in there.  Now Hannah is laughing in there.  I don't know what's going on.  I'm guessing they are playing rather than sleeping.  So I'm going to let them have some fun before I go break it up!!!

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Even though the girls are sick this week and we haven't been able to go anywhere to visit friends yet, I am so thankful for the change to our schedule.  I really am enjoying this first week being home with the girls during the day.  Hoping that by Friday they are both better so I can head to 9am mass with them and possibly followed by the moms group at our church.  Thank you hubby.  Someday it will be a different job too!

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It is wondrous how much Alicia is excited about Elfie, the name she gave the Elf on the Shelf.  She has watched the movie I don't know how many times.  And it makes asking her to do something much easier.  I'm not normally one to go with the secular holiday traditions, but this one is pretty cute.  She will go look for Elfie through the day to check to make she she is still there.  She hasn't woken up thinking about looking for her yet, but I'm guessing that will be soon.  Thank you Santa for sending the girls their elf.

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Thanks to Jen for hosting over at conversiondiary.com. 

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Alicia and I had a lot of fun helping memere cook on Wednesday for the Thanksgiving festivities.  She was enjoying getting the ingredients and trying to mix them too.  She ended up making a huge mess with the flour at the beginning, but she really had a good time.  It was so sweet.

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I had a really nice Turkey Day.  So thankful for my hubby, our girls and our family and friends.  Lots of love and support from so many people have made the tough times a little bit less stressful.

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Unfortunately, on Turkey Day my hubby and Hannah and I missed mass.  Alicia did make it with memere, pepere and aunty "k."  I like starting out Thanksgiving day with our church family thanking God for all he does in our lives.  But Hannah has been sick and wasn't even awake by the time we would have needed to head out the door and neither hubby nor I woke up feeling well.  We eventually felt better, but it was probably best to stay home.  I hear that our church was packed, which will probably mean that Christmas masses will be jam packed as well.  So sorry we missed it!

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Some pictures from Turkey Day:

Watching the Macy's parade. Ok, vacant stares, I know
but it's the only picture they are looking in the same direction!

I was trying to get them both to do touchdown. 
Hannah sometimes doesn't play for the camera.

But here she is cheesing it up!

Alicia having a great time with her cousins!

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Hannah is back on abuterol with her nebulizer.  For a child who was breastfed, she sure gets sick a lot.  I think the whole breastfeeding-is-great-for-a-baby's-system truly depends on the child.  Hasn't seemed to help her.  Alicia was a lot less sick as a baby and she was on formula almost from day one.  It seems as though Hannah is getting back to normal, although she still doesn't seem very interested in real food.  Probably has to do with her teething too!  She's still sleeping worse than she did as a baby.  Two hours of sleep is not enough.  Good thing I don't have a job, well if this not sleeping continues that is... 

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Speaking of no job, for my current job search, I think I'm leaning towards applying to work at restaurants rather than retail.  We will see what happens but truth be told I'm worried that without recent experience I will get no one to speak to me.  I've worked both retail and restaurants, but it was probably over five years ago.  Ok, maybe more like 10 years ago... Jeeze, has it really been that long!?!

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Black Friday is today, but there is NO WAY that I am going to do any type of shopping today.  Craziness!  Instead, I am going to try to get some things accomplished at home that have been long overdue.  And try to figure out where most of our Christmas decorations are in my parent's basement.  Weekend plans include: Christmas parade with the girls on Saturday and getting the tree up and hopefully decorated on Sunday.  I LOVE THE CHRISTMAS SEASON!!!!  So excited it is here!

Wondrous Wednesdays (16)



In the spirit of gratitude, I’m listing wondrous things happening in my world every week on Wednesday.  If you are a blogger and want to list what you are grateful for, feel free to do the same on your own blog every week and please be sure to link back to my blog.   If you are not a blogger, feel free to comment here on my blog with your own three wondrous things you are grateful for on Wednesday. 

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So this happened on a Saturday, but I still feel grateful for the compliment today. My hubby, girls, parents, sister and I went out to dinner at Ruby Tuesday Saturday night, which by the way was a lot better than I expected it to be.  We walked to our table and there was an older couple sitting nearby and as I was settling the girls in I heard the gentleman mutter under his breath, "We just can't get away from it."  I thought it may have to do with young children in a restaurant, but couldn't be sure.  But he definitely looked aggravated.  As they got up to leave, we were still there enjoying the last bits of our meal.  The man leaned over to me and said, "Your children are very well behaved.  You should be proud."  I thanked him and thought to myself how nice of him to say something.  I guess making Alicia and Hannah sit at the table while we all eat and finish our meal is worth the effort.  There are days it does not seem to be. 

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Hubby has made it to my Wondrous Wednesday list again, merely for his love and support.  He  always seems to know what to say when I need it most.

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I think it is wondrous how God works in our lives, behind the scenes.  Even when we do not know what it is He is doing, it is revealed to us in due time.  Praise God for all the wondrous works He does in my life.  Truly blessed!

 

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Thanks to Jen for hosting over at conversiondiary.com. 

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So last week hubby got a shift change to work days FINALLY and I gave my notice last Friday.  Which means this is my last week working part time at the Currier Museum of Art (who by the way if you live in the NH area has a really great Rock and Roll photography exhibition running now through mid January).  I have really enjoyed my work at the Currier and have met some really great people.  I have to try to find something to replace at least part of my income, which hopefully will happen sooner rather than later.  My last day of work is the Tuesday before Thanksgiving. 

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WOW, Thanksgiving already?!?  Cannot believe how quickly this year has flown by!  I did manage to find a couple of cute matching dresses for our girls for Thanksgiving. 

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I have also found two different sets of cute matching dresses for the girls for Christmas.  I should be frugal and return one of the sets, but one set has short sleeves and the other set is sweater dresses.  It is always super hot at my hubby's nana's house, so I may just keep both.  Besides, the girls could wear the matching sweater dresses at any time, not just Christmas.

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Speaking of looking for work, 'tis the season for seasonal retail, but I don't understand why it is that every place you apply expects you to fill out a survey that is over half an hour long.  I realize they are trying to make sure they hire people with good customer service skills and people who won't steal from the company.  But this is not life and death - I mean it isn't like they are hiring a nurse.  Besides, don't most people answer these questions in the manner they think the company wants them to respond?!?  And what will we talk about in an interview anyway?

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Hubby being home for dinner and for bedtime has already made an impact on the girls.  This morning Alicia asked daddy to take a "short work" like memere is doing today.  She must have missed her daddy more than we realized.  When I asked her if she liked him being home for dinner and bedtime, she had a big smile and was nodding.  So sweet and so glad that we decided this was a good change for us.

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My scariest moment as a mom to date happened this past Wednesday.  I decided to take the girls shopping to try to find some matching boots to go with their sweater dresses.  It was an unsuccessful trip, but a very scary one for me.  We were in the parking lot and the girls were strapped into one of those two person shopping carts at Target.  I was putting Hannah in the car seat first and when I turned around to get Alicia she was no longer in the shopping cart.  I thought, "did someone take her (I watch too much Criminal Minds)?  did she wander away?  Did she get hit by a car?"  I screamed her name, no response.  I screamed her name again, still nothing.  So I ran to the back of the car and she wasn't there.  I pushed the cart out of the way and started up the other side...  still didn't see her, so then I screamed her name again and she came up to me and said, "Here I am mama!"  Scariest. few. seconds. ever!

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I grabbed her and said, "You scared the s*%t out of me."  NOT my proudest moment, to swear like that, but it just came out.  I was so freaked out about it that I didn't really yell at her or anything, but I was almost in tears and she could tell something was wrong.  I tried to explain to her how scared I was and asked her if she would be scared if she lost mama or dad.  She said "it's ok mama."  Not the response I hoped for.  If this happens again, next time there will be some severe yelling going on if not a spanking. Good grief.  I thought Hannah would be the one to do this sort of thing...  don't know what I'd do if I lost her. 

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In the spirit of gratitude, I’m listing wondrous things happening in my world every week on Wednesday.  If you are a blogger and want to list what you are grateful for, feel free to do the same on your own blog every week and please be sure to link back to my blog.   If you are not a blogger, feel free to comment here on my blog with your own three wondrous things you are grateful for on Wednesday. 

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It is truly wondrous that my husband, after three plus years of a night shift - basically since our first daughter was born, has made the switch to a day shift this past Monday.  I feel like I can already see a difference in his demeanor and happiness level, only after two days.  Sometimes a small change can make all the difference.  I am so happy for him that he can now be home for dinner and putting his little ladies to bed.  He was an occasional bedtime story teller on weekends and days off, but now he should be able to be there for all of that.  I think it will be great, not only for the girls and for me, but for him as well.

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My husband has been doing a fast every Wednesday for the past month.   He is doing it as part of e5men - Husbands Fasting for their Wives.  Basically the plan is to

Fast on plain bread and water at least one 24 hour period a month for your bride for her needs of spiritual growth and/or  healing; preferably on the 1st Wednesday of the month.

He sacrifices a lot for us and this is just one more he does to witness to his love for me.  He's had people at work ask about it and he explains the idea behind it.  I am so blessed.

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It is wondrous how much our three year old daughter enjoys hockey and, like me, enjoys Tuesday night with all the "funny hits".  Somehow we have to hope that it will not translate into a love of hitting her sister.  I am glad that my parents can share hockey games with her. I am sure most of why she likes it so much is that she gets to spend some quality time with her memere and pepere.


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Go For It! Make It Happen!

So, for the most part I had been doing really well with waiting on searching for a home.  Then all of the sudden, WHAM, I decide to take a look at properties online.  Now, I keep telling myself that we need to save money, we NEED to wait.  Then I see a few potential “houses” in our price range and I start to get all excited that maybe we CAN do this now.  But with little to no money saved, deep down I know that it is not our time yet.  God is trying to teach me the virtue of patience.

Our society is definitely one that tells us, if you want it, go for it.  No time like the present.  If you want something to happen, then YOU have to make it happen.  And conversely, if you think you can't, you can't.  But deep down we know when something isn't the right thing to do, don't we?  We know when sometime is not the right time.  I think what we miss in this process of "making things happen" is that we miss out on what the opportunity would have been had we waited, had we done what's right.  God has a plan for us.  Why don't we wait?  Why this instant gratification?

I think we can all look back on something in our life and say if only I had waited.  Yes, hindsight is 20/20 but if we just admit that there is a right way to do things and a wrong way, I think we'd all be better off.  I'm not saying this to be preachy.  Just as an example, in my past, I dated all the wrong guys, guys I knew that were not at all someone I could see myself marrying, all because I was lonely.  To be honest all that dating the wrong guy so that I wasn't lonely made things worse because eventually I would feel lonely AND USED.  I know now all that heartache I went through was to get me to my husband, to be able to truly appreciate the man that he is.  But those were tough times.  I guess what I'm saying is that, regardless of whatever decision we are facing, we all are going out there and grabbing at what we THINK we need.  We don't wait to truly discern what it is that God is trying to prepare us for. 

We need to trust Him more.  This whole trusting God's plan thing, I do alright with for a while.  Then I suddenly start to think, "What is it I'm waiting for?  Shouldn't I be DOING something?"  In all honesty, right now, I am doing what I need to be doing.  Humbling myself to admit that we need some help and we need some time to regroup.  Praying and discerning what it is that God has planned for our family's future.  I think that this is almost the best outcome of having humbled ourselves, is that we are trying to let God show us the path.  I know he has something better planned for us.  Not easier necessarily, but something better than we were dreaming up in our minds.

I'm sure there are people who know our situation and think, "There is no way.  I would never move back in with my parents with my husband and young children. NEVER!"  But what was the alternative?  Continuing on in the situation, living with no savings, unable to make ends meet, struggling and building up credit card debt that we have worked so hard to eliminate?  Or maybe finding a place to live that would work better with our budget, but in a horrible neighborhood with a poor school system as our girls continue to creep up on their school years? That is something I would NEVER do, just to save my pride.  We have to think of what is best, what is the right thing to do and not what would make us look strong, independent, or gritty.  We have to realize that sometimes we do not have all the answers.  God does.

As I said, this has not been an easy situation, not on my parents, not on myself, my husband or our relationship as a couple.  However, I truly believe that in the end we will be in a situation that will help us to meet our goals for our family's future.  That is what keeps me going, knowing we are doing the right thing.  Knowing that we are looking to God so that, in His time, He can lay His plan out there for us to follow.

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Thanks to Jen for hosting over at conversiondiary.com. 

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First order of business for the week is a couple of Halloween pictures since our Trick or Treating was just this past Sunday, November 6th.  I'm one of THOSE moms who loves the crying baby photos.  I laugh every time.  I know, mean mama!!!

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I wandered into the playroom Wednesday morning to find our one year old walking around with a copy of "Theology of the Body for Beginners" by Christopher West.  She was so proud of herself - she would thumb through the pages, hold it up to show me and stomp around, stop and look through it again.  Too cute and I tried to get a picture, but this was the best I could do. 

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Monday night was not the best night I've had.  I truly do not understand why it is that when you have a newborn, you can deal with a sleepless night, but when one comes out of the blue with an older child, you are truly unprepared for it. 

Hannah, our one year old would not sleep after our three year old woke her up with a very LOUD, "MAMA, I HAVE TO GO POTTY!"  From 1:45 am until 5:45 am I was trying to get her to relax enough to go to sleep.  If they were not in the same room, I would have let the one year old cry it out.  However, with Alicia having bad dreams I wanted her to try to get some sleep.  That did not work either.  Every time I tried to put Hannah down, she would freak out crying, waking up Alicia and who would then "need someone to sit with her."  I cannot put Hannah down at that point because she freaks out at bedtime if you put her down and stay in the room.  WHAT A MESS!

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I managed to go to work on about 2 hours sleep.  I COFFEE LOADED and in I went.  I know, I know.  I said I would stop with the Dunkin's.  See, I definitely could use DDA!!

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At this point in the game, I usually have done at least a little Christmas shopping.  Some of you are going to say, "what are you, nuts?"  But I really dislike all the crowds that start right after Thanksgiving.  In truth, I just can't handle it.  I've never once done the Black Friday thing.  This year, probably in large part due to our tight quarters at my parents' house and not much storage room, I haven't gotten a thing.  Usually I pick up a thing here or there...  Nothing.  This is will not be pretty.

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Our parish has the Annual Bazzar this weekend, which I have enjoyed going to in recent years - they have a penny sale, theme baskets, baked goods, a 50/50 raffle and a raffle for some decent cash prizes.  A while back, there were a few years in a row that I won something, but have not had this good fortune for a few years.  It is always fun anyway.  I just have to remember to bring scissors for those penny sale tickets.  Ripping those is just sooo time consuming.

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People are often unreasonable and self-centered. Forgive them anyway.

If you are kind, people may accuse you of ulterior motives. Be kind anyway.

If you are honest, people may cheat you. Be honest anyway.

If you find happiness, people may be jealous. Be happy anyway.

The good you do today may be forgotten tomorrow. Do good anyway.

Give the world the best you have and it may never be enough. Give your best anyway.

For you see, in the end, it is between you and God. It was never between you and them anyway.

Mother Teresa

Wondrous Wednesdays (14)



In the spirit of gratitude, I’m listing wondrous things happening in my world every week on Wednesday.  If you are a blogger and want to list what you are grateful for, feel free to do the same on your own blog every week and please be sure to link back to my blog.   If you are not a blogger, feel free to comment here on my blog with your own three wondrous things you are grateful for on Wednesday. 

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What wondrous love it is for parents who will take you back in, and not just you, but your husband and two toddlers?  Not to mention that they now have to contend with what happens when wee ones have bad dreams and get freaked out or are teething and cry inconsolably.  While sometimes I get into the negative habit of thinking how our situation is less than desirable, I know that we are loved and am in awe how much my parents are sacrificing for us to live with them.  This is a time in their lives that should not involve being kept up late at night with crying little ones.  It means the world!

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Wondrous craziness of same said little ones running around the house giggling, screaming, yelling and letting off some energy.  I love seeing such pure unadulterated joy.  It reminds me that sometimes, in the middle of everything seeming to be overwhelmingly difficult, you just have to be silly and not take everything so seriously.

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I have been following a blog on couponing - The Extreme Coupon Professors - in hopes of saving some extra money.  I even went to one of their classes and think that there are some things that I can do to make a difference in our budget.  Once I can get myself organized, I think it is going to be wondrous the money that can be saved.  What will be truly wondrous will be if my little girls will actually try to new foods that we discover.  It's all about what's on sale and what you have a coupon for!  Should make dinner time even more of an adventure!

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Thanks to Jen for hosting over at conversiondiary.com.  The power outage Snowtober edition.

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Young children who go to sleep with night lights on and wake up to complete darkness, freak out and cannot get back to sleep.


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Wood stoves are truly a blessing when you have no power.  Keeps the house warm enough for you to not have to worry too much about where you will sleep for the night and whether or not your kids will be warm enough.

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Having a gas stove, instead of electric, is wonderful thing.  You can at least heat up some water, cook some food on a burner.  Makes things somewhat manageable.


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There is a certain peace that comes from not having electronics on all day for "background" noise.  But another bonus is that it makes the one movie a day rule seem like a piece of cake once your power comes back.

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When it gets dark out, give your one year old who has been walking around for a while a little battery operated lantern to hold on to.  If he or she has started to imitate words, say "light" and ask him or her to show it to you.  You have your own cute little drunk for entertainment!


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This happened last time we lost power but was pretty cute so I thought that I'd add it here.  Tell your three year old who is asking why there are no lights on in the house that you lost power.  He or she might soon be walking around the house with a flashlight trying to "find" the power that you "lost."  They are so cute at that age and make you realize that sometimes the phrases we use make no sense.  Another favorite phrase of mine that is silly is when you tell them to "hold it" when they say they have to go potty.  Ever try to "hold" pee?  Another thing that doesn't make much sense to a three year old.

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Snowtober Special: Veggie soup - if still without power try this because our power came on while getting this soup going, although more than likely if it is day six and you still do not have power, everything has already defrosted and possibly started to rot!   You also wouldn't be able to see this post unless you were looking from work or some other device, like your phone.  Anyway, this soup consists of all frozen veggies that have defrosted in the fridge:  red bell peppers, onion, broccoli, zucchini, corn, spinach and celery.  Add spices of your choice, I used some parsley, oregano, basil, chili powder, garlic powder, and minced garlic.  Pretty good, although it is even better when topped with some cheese...

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In the spirit of gratitude, I’m listing wondrous things happening in my world every week on Wednesday.  If you are a blogger and want to list what you are grateful for, feel free to do the same on your own blog every week and please be sure to link back to my blog.   If you are not a blogger, feel free to comment here on my blog with your own three wondrous things you are grateful for on Wednesday. 

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When you do not have power with two young children it is easy to see how wondrous our modern technology truly is.  Hot showers, refrigerators, ovens that work and heat are come to be seen as such luxuries.  This week has been a reminder of how blessed we are to have these things we so easily take for granted.  Tuesday early evening, our power came back on.  WOOHOO!  Thank you God!

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So thankful that my parents, memere and pepere to our little girls, have a wood stove.  It has given us a warm place to relax, despite being out of power from Saturday through Tuesday night.

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It is wondrous how many people have offered their help.  From neighbors bringing by coffee the morning after the storm to family and friends offering hot showers and any help that is needed, we are truly blessed to have such loving and caring people in our lives.  Thank you everyone for all your love and support. 





To everyone still without power, we will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.  Hope that your power comes back soon!  Happy Wednesday!!